Al-Marbawi: My Long Lost Companion
Contemplation February 5th, 2012
It’s been years, or so I would say 8 years to be exact. The first time we met, I could make neither head or tail of who you are. Yet I took it upon myself to reach for you and discern every word you tried to teach me.
Every day, I would bring you to school. People asked why; carrying you to and fro was such a burden. I merely smiled. Indeed, they were right, but at the same time they were gravely wrong. In time, I began to like you. No matter how hard it was to understand you and how heavy a burden you were, I tried hard and even sought help from Ustaz and Ustazah. Others would mock at me as I carry you on my back or by my side, day or night.
“What load are you carrying … a brick?” said they.
I didn’t want to leave you. You were the only true companion I had. No matter how heavy you were on my back, I knew that befriending you was no mistake. You were the key for me to understand the words of Allah better.
Alhamdulillah. The day of the test came and I easily answered from leaf to leaf. Going through the ordeal was as easy and as swift as turning a page. By the grace of Allah, you have helped me a lot, and today, I understand you more than I did 8 years ago.
However, I have neglected you for so long that the very instant I saw you, my tears trickled. My quest to further understand the words of Allah has come to a halt for I have also stopped seeing you.
Dear Kamus Al-Marbawi, when was the last time I held you in my arms?
I have become so much engulfed in the ramblings of this world that I have forgotten you – the key to leverage my understanding of Kalaamullah.
O Allah, forgive me.
Feedback from a Savvy Customer
Featured Posts January 13th, 2012
Subjek: Maklumbalas Pengguna Savvy – untuk perhatian Dato’ Sri Haji Syed Zainal Abidin B. Syed Mohamed Tahir, Managing Director of PROTON
Assalamu ‘alaikum wrt. Dato’,
Pertama sekali saya ingin memperkenalkan secara ringkas tentang diri saya. Saya, Dr. Mohd Ezani bin Mat Hassan, sekarang bekerja di Graduate School of Business, Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia. Untuk makluman pihak PROTON, kami telah membeli kereta Proton Savvy AMT pada tahun 2006 kerana berkenan dengan dakwaan penjimatan guna minyak/petrol serta harga yang berpadanan dan ciri-ciri luwes AMT.
Tujuan saya menulis kepada PROTON adalah kerana rasa kasih kepada syarikat ini dan ingin menceritakan pengalaman sebagai pemilik PROTON Savvy, sebahagian besar yang diceritakan barangkali juga dalam pengetahuan pihak PROTON sendiri. Pengalaman saya dengan Savvy boleh dianggap sebagai tidak bernasib baik. Saya mula menghadapi masalah dengan Savvy sekitar awal tahun kedua memilikinya. Ketika itu saya mulai faham, harga barang ganti Savvy tidak seperti kereta dalam kategorinya – barang ganti Savvy lebih mahal. Pengalaman yang menjerihkan selepas itu ialah semasa kami pulang berhari-raya di Kota Bharu. Bersama dengan sebuah lagi kereta, Savvy dipandu pulang oleh anak sulong saya untuk kami meraikan Raya Puasa di Kota Bharu 3 tahun yang lalu. Setelah menghampiri Kota Bharu, sesuatu yang tidak kena dikesan melalui bunyi dan pemanduan yang terganggu. Pada hariraya ke-3 atau ke-4 setelah Pusat Servis Proton di KB buka kami telah menghantar Savvy ini untuk dibaiki. Sekali lagi kami merasai jerih membayar kos pembaikan yang agak mahal berbanding dengan kereta setandingnya. Dan seterusnya saya menghadapi pelbagai hal yang memerlukan penukaran alat ganti atau pembaikan. Rupanya pengalaman-pengalaman membaik pulih yang terdahulu, walaupun melebihi daripada kebiasaan, tidaklah sangat berbanding dengan apa yang saya alami (akan alami) daripada pembaikan yang diperlukan untuk kerosakan kini. Biarlah saya kisahkan pengalaman ini secara khusus seperti berikut:
Beberapa bulan yang lepas, Savvy saya menghadapi masalah enjinya kadang-kadang mati dan kemudian dapat dihidupkan kembali. Saya membawa kereta ini ke Pusat Servis COE bersebelahan lebuhraya KESAS untuk diservis dan juga meminta melihat hal ini diperbaiki. Ketika saya sampai di kaunter resepsi COE dan menceritakan jenis kerosakan seperti ini, saya telah diselorohkan oleh penyambutnya, “Ni kereta ‘orang kaya’ pakai”. Saya respons kembali, “Apa maksud kereta orang kaya pakai?”. Dia tersenyum, dan saya menceritakan insiden ini kepada seorang rakan pengurusan atasan PROTON hal ini. Barangkali, prihatin dengan rungutan pengguna, rakan tadi telah membawa hal ini kepada pihak pengurusan COE untuk “disiasat”. Bila saya ditelefon oleh pegawai COE untuk mendapat penjelasan berkenaan dengan komen tadi, saya katakan pada pandangan saya penyambut tersebut hanyalah berseloroh dan tidak perlulah diperbesarkan dan diambil ‘tindakan’ kepadanya. Ketika kereta ini diperbaiki, sau insiden pelanggaran telah berlaku dalam woksyop. Walau bagaimana pun pihak PROTON membayar kos pembaikan ketukan ini yang dihantar keluar dan tentunya berlaku kelewatan untuk dikembalikan.
Oleh sebab masalah enjin mati berlaku secara intermiten, ketika saya mengambilnya dari COE tiada pula hal enjin ni mati berlaku. Tapi sebenarnya, pada keesokan harinya hal ini berulang. Saya pun agak sibuk ketika itu dan kereta ini pun digunakan bertukar ganti dengan sebuah kereta lain. Saya menangguhkan untuk membawanya kembali ke PROTON COE. Kali terakhir saya menggunakan kereta Savvy ialah semasa hendak ke tempat kerja saya di UKM. Tiba di simpang lampu isyarat pintu masuk kereta ini mati lagi. Dengan bantuan seorang kereta ini ditolak ke tepi dan saya bergegas untuk menghadiri temujanji saya dengan seorang pelajar kedoktoran. Pada sebelah petangnya saya ke tempat kereta dan cuba menghidupkannya – ia hidup dan saya terus pandu untuk membawanya pulang. Sekali lagi dalam perjalanan, kira-kira 1 km dari rumah, kereta ini mati enjin lagi. Dengan bantuan seorang pemandu lain, kami menolak kereta ini ke bahu jalan. Pada malamnya saya kembali ke tempat tersebut dan cuba menghidupkan enjinnya – ia dapat dihidupkan dan saya memandunya pulang. Sejak itu, saya tidak memandunya lagi dan ia tersadar di parkir rumah sebelum saya dapat menghantarnya kembali pada lebih seminggu yang lalu.
Sekarang saya mulai lebih memahami apa yang diselorohkan oleh penyambut tamu di COE, yakni kereta ini “kereta orang kaya pakai”. Pegawai di COE memeberikan anggaran kos pembaikan kepada kerosakan ini jika dicampurkan dengan kos pembaikan sebelumnya (yg tak jadi) adalah tidak jauh dengan harga pasaran kereta ini (yg baru mencecah 5 tahun). Setelah dirisik-risik, saya merasakan kerosakan dan masalah enjin mati seumpama ini bukan kes terpencil atau ‘isolated’ kepada kereta Savvy saya. Pihak PROTON mengetahui hal ini! Sehingga ini, kereta saya WPF 6160 (sebenarnya didaftarkan dibawah nama isteri) belum dapat diperbaiki lagi, sebab saya diberitahu ssstem IT di COE dalam penyelenggaraan sudah lebih seminggu. Saya meminta mereka melihat kembali rekod pembaikan sebelum ini, samada barang ganti yang dicadangkan melibatkan barang yang telah diganti sebelum ini.
Sebagai seorang pensyarah, saya mengajar tentang tanggunjawab kita sebagai pengguna dan juga ‘expectation’ kita sebagai pengguna kepada pengeluar atau pihak yang menyediakan perkhidmatan. Saya teringat sebuah kes pengajaran, “Mitsubishi”, yang saya gunakan sebagai ilustrasi tentang isu berkait dengan tangungjawab, etika dan kualiti dalam permasalahan seumpamana ini. Saya lampirkan kes ini, dan barangkali ia nya boleh dimanafaati. Jadi dalam hal ini, saya berpandangan, Savvy menghadapi beberapa kegagalan rekabentuk (design failures) dan ianya harus pihak PROTON sewajarnya bertanggungjawab juga kepada masalah dan kegagalan tersebut dan tidak harus semata-mata menurukannya menjadi bebanan pengguna.
Saya harap dengan paparan pengalaman ini saya menyumbang untuk menjadikan PROTON lebih cemerlang.
Prof. Madya Dr Mohd Ezani Mat Hassan
Graduate School of Business, UKM
Mitsubishi Case
You could call Motohiro Kaibara a Mitsubishi man. He works as a mechanic at his family’s Mitsubishi Motors dealership in Kitakyushu, a city in southern Japan, and he will only drive a Mitsubishi. However, Kaibara’s faith in Mitsubishi began to unravel when in May 1999 a customer nearly ran down his own grandchild while attempting to park his $33,000 1998 Mitsubishi Diamante. The driver had just put the car into reverse when it lurched backward, barely missing the child before crashing the gate. In July 1999 Mitsubishi tested the vehicle at its regional technical centre and insisted that nothing fundamental was wrong. In subsequent months, the incident happened twice more to the same driver almost causing an accident on both occassions. Kaibara checked the car himself. To his surprise the vehicle shot back a metre on shifting into reverse.
This was not an isolated case. In September 1999 Shigeo Toyoda, the 57-year-old president of a small business in western Japan was parking his four-month old Diamante on a Tokyo street. Before he could turn the engine off the car jumped back suddenly hitting an empty van. Then, Shigeji Tsugahara, a taxi driver in Saitama with 35 years’ driving experience, was backing into a parking spot in June 2000 when the engine of his new Diamante revved up unexpectedly and he rammed into another car parked three metres behind him. The following month, Sadoa Ito was backing hid Diamante into a space on the fifth floor of a Tokyo supermarket parking lot. When he put the car into reverse, the car jumped back, veering to the right and crashed into a pillar, the car would have smashed through a railing and fallen 15 metres to the ground.
These, and other incidents, come in the wake of revelations that over the last two decades Mitsubishi Motors has covered up thousands of complaints about glitches with its vehicles. Since August 2000 the company has announced the recall of 620,000 vehicles. Already Mitsubishi’s reputation is suffering. Its sales in Japan slumped 3.9% in August 2000 from the year before and this is posing a headache for Daimler-Chrysler, which agreed to acquire 34% of the Japanese automaker. This is a headache that Daimler-Chrysler can do without in light of its many other problems. Mitsubishi has further problems as police in Tokyo havelaunched an investigation into allegations that the company was criminally negligent in covering up defects. Mitsubishi declined to comment on the ongoing probe although investigators told the Japanese press they had evidence that serious car defects were secretly repaired at two of Mitsubishi technical centres by repairing or replacing car computers. Megumu Okubo, General Manager of Mitsubishi’s car service department, said that the computers were not the problem; the problem was drivers mistakenly hitting the gas pedal instead of the brakes. Okubo indicated that there are two computers in the vehicles. One acts as a backup that takes over if the primary unit fails.
After Shigeo Toyoda’s incident he asked Mitsubishi to inspect his car. The company said there was nothing wrong. So Toyoda went into action and created a website where Mitsubishi owners could report car problems. He received over 1000 complaints about Mitsubishi vehicles and passed the details to the police. However, winning a product liability lawsuit in Japan is not easy for consumers as judges often rule against plaintiff. Further, it is tough taking on big business. Toyoda has received three visits from company executives who, he says, were rude and implied that he was a liar. When Toyoda increased his online campaign, Mitsubishi filed a lawsuit in May 2000 demanding $5000 or the amount they said it cost them to examine Toyoda’s car. In October, Toyoda filed a $20,000 damage counter-suit against Mitsubishi, alleging if he had hit and killed someone, he would have been imprisoned. Further, Kaibara the mechanic is feeling the heat. Mitsubishi sent a senior engineer to his dealership to try to convince the mechanic that the Diamante is trouble free. Kaibara is resolute and insists that the car problems is no mirage.
(source: adapted from: ‘A cover-up at Mitsubishi? As customer complaints rise, police probe the carmaker’, Business Week 9 October 2000, pp32-33).
Why Takaful?
Contemplation December 2nd, 2011
My post heading may sound as if an insurance or Takaful agent is behind this entry, but you can rest assured that it’s not. I’m here to re-emphasize the importance of joining up a Takaful scheme, again, just as I had done many posts ago.
You’re a family man. Every month, a reasonable percentage of your earnings for your loved ones is saved. You want your kids to have the best education possible. More importantly, you want all of them to live a happier life in the future.
Alas! In an uneventful accident, Allah had taken away your life.
What now?
What is to become of your dream to provide your kids with the best education?
More importantly, how are they to live their lives now?
Your wife is just a housewife, or, even if she works, now she would have to rely on her income to support the family – all by herself …. and this is the happiness you had hoped for?
A typical scenario which an insurance/Takaful agent would pose. Then again, think about it – seriously!
Life is unpredictable. We often take for granted the predicaments of life which others encounter. Family members who are dependent on a sole income contributor would likely suffer if the contributor is no longer living to support them. Even if the contributor still lives on, there are other scenarios where an uneventful crisis can occur and would claim the family’s hard-earned savings, and even life!
This is where Takaful plays its role as a cushion to support the family.
I am often appalled by some people who believe that Takaful schemes are meant to make them rich. That’s just not how it works. One who joins a Takaful scheme should hope for nothing except for rewards from Allah, hoping that their contribution to the Takaful pool of collection would ease the difficulties or hardships of other Takaful participants who are suffering. Of course, we would hope that nothing bad would occur in life. However, we would always want our loved ones to live on without a dramatic dent that could shatter their own dreams when we’re no longer there to support them.
Apply for Takaful now, while you still can.
Call Mohd Faizal Mohd Fadillah at 017-248 2442. (Faizal is a Prudential-BSN Takaful Agent.)
Parenting: Love Your Kids and They Will Love You
Family November 12th, 2011
On typical working days, the part which I really look forward to is the time to go back home from work. I suppose the same goes for anyone else, but for me, the real reward that I yearn for is to be with the kids after a day’s work. Always. Everyday.
Yet I don’t know if my daughters are able to comprehend or appreciate this fatherly feeling inside of me. At least, my second daughter, Aneesah, seems to show more ‘empathy’ when I open up to hug her than my eldest, Sakeenah. Whilst her younger sister tries to grab my attention, Sakeenah remains seemingly blunt and unmoved by my return. Perhaps intentionally, perhaps not. Deep inside, my inner voice would ask her: “Don’t you miss me?”
She would simply look at me from the corner of her eyes as if to say in reply: “Don’t you miss me?”
She’s a smart girl. Politically mindful, I would say. In the end, I would give in and would have to chase after her (she would run away cheekily) to get a hug. Aneesah, on the other hand, would be left behind, confused and unaware of what the whole commotion is about. As much as possible I would try to give equal attention to both but being human would mean that there’s always the probability that my effort can turn out to be lopsided. There are odd times, however, when Sakeenah would suddenly come by and give a small peck on my cheek. In the end, all that matter is that I know she knows that I love her. In a book called Adab Al-Mufrad, Imam Bukhari mentioned a hadith of the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam):
Jarir reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “Allah will not show mercy to a person who does not show mercy to other people.”
Inspired by a colouring photo shot of Sakeenah’s friend, Alia1, masya-Allah, my wife and I decided to buy colour pencils and colouring books for our daughters too. Of course, the one to make sense of the colour pencils at first is Sakeenah. Aneesah learns quickly because she has her elder sister as her role model. In most cases, however, we would have to keep an eye on Aneesah since almost everything she sees is deemed edible. Here’s a video clip of her drawing her Abi, masya-Allah. Even though I am seen as merely straight lines, at least I’m still part of her ‘landscape’ drawing. Speaking of which, I wonder what happened to Ummi? Oh yes, she’s busy cooking delicious food for us in the kitchen! I assume that this is the logical reason behind Ummi’s absence in the drawing. At the end of the clip, you will see Sakeenah drumming on the chair with her colour pencil. Wherever she learned that from??
Love you lots, kids! – Abi & Ummi
1Posted with permission from Alia’s mum (Farhana Mohd Fadzil) and dad (Mohd Aizat Yaacob) – picture was initially posted on Facebook ( October 21 at 12:24am)
Superdads and Supermoms
Family October 25th, 2011
Often, we would like to brag ourselves about being either a supermom or a superdad. With all the time to spare with your kids, there is no better way to manifest our super powers but to nurture them with all the love they need even though we work round the clock 24/7 (well, almost!). When we arrive home from work, our kids will just rush and climb all over us. We might not be someone to the world, but to them, we are the noble hero and heroine that they salute and admire. Masya-Allah. So, hang on there supermoms and superdads!
Like superman, my daughters resemble my own source of power. They lighten up my days like the sun, but alas, they are also my own weaknesses; like kryptonite draining all my powers.
I hear the call to prayer. The azan for ‘isya’. As I get ready to leave for the mosque, my daughter pleads so that she could follow. What’s a superdad supposed to do? She cannot follow, she’ll disturb the jamaa’ah. I cannot look to her eyes and her tears. Her cries are weakening me. Okay then my little one, Abi will not go. NOOOO! Abi must go! So out flew Abi the superdad to the mosque, leaving his superkids under the care of supermom. Alhmadulillah, supermom seamlessly takes care of them under her cape, comforting and consoling them.
After a while, superdad returns, feeling happy to meet His Lord’s obligations, and so is supermom, and so are their superkids.
Tribute to my wife and daughters.
3 Tough Questions with 1 Tough Answer
Contemplation October 13th, 2011
The two DJs of IKIMfm, Pian (Saujana) and Siti, today brought up an interesting tale which concerned the ‘aqiidah. Based on my own research, it seems that different sources relay the story differently but the main component or objective of the story remains the same. The one I heard over IKIMfm was that the man asking the three questions got a punch rather than a slap as told from one source below:
There was a man who went overseas to study for quite a long time. When he returned, he asked his parents to find him a religious scholar or any expert who could answer his three questions. Finally, his parents were able to find a Muslim scholar that might be able to answer his questions.
“ Who are you? Can you answer my questions ?” asked the man.
“ I am one of Allah ( Subhanahu wa Ta`ala )’s slaves and Insya Allah ( God willing ), I will be able to answer your questions,” replied the scholar.
“ Are you sure? A lot of Professors and experts were not able to answer my questions,” replied the man.
“ I will try my best, with the help of Allah ( Subhanahu wa Ta`ala )” said the scholar.
“ I have three questions,” began the man.
“ Does God exist? If so, now show me His shape.”
“ What is taqdiir (fate)?”
“If syaitan (devil) was created from fire, then why is it that in the end, he will be thrown to hell that is also created from fire? It certainly will not hurt him at all since syaitan and hell were created from fire. Did not God think this far?”
Suddenly the scholar slapped the young man’s face very hard. The man, who was shocked and hurt by the slap became confused.
The scholar began to explain,
Scholar : “How did it feel after I slapped you?”
Man : “Yes”
Man : “I cannot,”
Scholar “That is my first answer. All of us feels God`s existance without being able to see His shape”.
Scholar : “ Last night, did you dream that you will be slapped by me?”
Man : “ No.”
He then continued : “The hand that I used to slap you, what is it created from?”
Man : “It’s created from flesh,”
Scholar : “How did you feel after I slapped you?”
Scholar : “Even though Syaitan ( devil ) and Jahannam ( Hell-fire ) were created by fire, if Allah wants, insya-Allah the Hell-fire will become a very painful place for Syaitan” The wise scholar had answerd all three of the tough questions by one slap.
If the Beloved was Amongst Us
Featured Posts October 4th, 2011
I know this song has been circulated around for some time especially since the day TV Al-Hijrah popularized in one of its progamme during last Ramadhan. ‘لو كان بيننا الحبيب’ is indeed a reflection for us all to ponder upon; how close are we in following and practicing our Prophet’s sunnah? This song serves as a reminder to us all, that if we really love our Prophet (salla-llaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam), then his was of life should be our too!
Here is another version but with a Malay subtitle:
When Your Child Can Speak
Family September 14th, 2011
Here is a du’a which you can recite when your child is able to converse: ~
For him:
مَا شَاءَ الله. لاَ قُوَّةَ إِلاَّ بِاللهِ. اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَيْهِ
For her:
مَا شَاءَ الله. لاَ قُوَّةَ إِلاَّ بِاللهِ. اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَيْهَا
Meaning:
“Whatever (occur is due to) Allah’s will. There is no power save for the Power of Allah. O Allah, grant (Your) Blessing onto him/her (the child).”
Your Child is You
Contemplation August 15th, 2011
Yesterday, we spent almost the whole day at my in laws’ place. Mok Zai, a relative of ours, was also there with her children. Having lost her husband a while back, she has spent her days thriving for her children’s well-being and reliving her demised husband’s sacred wish and obligation to bring up their children as hafizahs (one who knows the Qur’an by heart).
Subhaanallah. I was just amazed at how well they have raised them. In this age of mere deceptions and chaos, their way of upbringing can easily be misunderstood as extremism but I do not see anything extreme in their practice. The eldest, Aisyah, has already learnt the Qur’an by heart. She did it in only one year, masya-Allah. Her younger sisters are well on the way to reach her level soon.
In life, there are few things which trigger my conscience into contemplation. One of them is upon observing people who do things differently; people who are willing to take the risk when there are already traditional ways of doing it. Mok Zai do not send her children to normal schools like we all do. When asked why, she persisted that there were things she’d rather want her children to focus more on than the syllabus taught at schools. To her and her husband, it would be a waste of money. They would rather want their own children to be exposed to the Qur’an first, then would come others. It was a strong belief and I had no doubt in believing in their success since their daughters were already the living proof of their vision.
In order to succeed, one must desire for it, make necessary sacrifices for (strive to achieve) it, and of course, pray to Allah for it. This was Mok Zai’s comment regarding the how-to’s of successfully educating her children. Parents play a major role in the upbringing of their children. To have good children, you yourself must be good. You must be what you want your child to be.
When we were leaving for home, Mok Zai was trying to leave a ‘message’ for Sakeenah. A message which I believe was indirectly hinted at me and my wife. With her right hand, she gestured the hand depicting ‘one’ whilst singing to Sakeenah: “Allah Esa, Allah Berkuasa …. Allah Esa, Allah Berkuasa … Allah Esa, Allah Berkuasa. (Allah is One, Allah is Almighty).” Sakeenah merely smiled, not knowing what to do. However, I believe she will – if only my wife and I repeat it to her many times so that she would eventually absorb it and believe in it, insya-Allah.
KTM Never Learn
Featured Posts July 26th, 2011
Judging from the number of negative responses, the fact about KTM commuter’s bad service can no longer remain hidden within its own tracks. 10 years ago, it was the most convenient means of traveling across major cities near Kuala Lumpur. Now, the public has up-roared their disapproval of KTM’s service and recently, I was fatefully forced to join the ranks of many who had to use its commuting services.
Back then in the year 2000, KTM commuter was still a reliable service in terms of both punctuality and availability. People who commuted then were probably less in number compared to today. However, we still had to crowd inside the coach especially during peak hours. Today, nothing has changed except for the fact that the ‘pink coach’ for women and 6-coach commuter was introduced. Apart from that, the number of KTM users has increased. The delay has also dramatically increased. In addition, the passenger per coach density has crazily increased and I believe it is no longer a safe means of commuting for expecting mothers and the elderly!

After a period of time, the door closed. Those who were unlucky simply watched the train move away in frustration.
Whatever the reason behind KTM’s bad service, they certainly haven’t done much to improve or mitigate the problem. I am sure the management of KTM Berhad is wise enough to realise the shortcomings of their commuter services. There is no point in having KTMs if I can reach my house from KL in 30 minutes by car as opposed to 2 hours by KTM. We’re still a long way away in how Japan implements and runs their railway system.





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